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bils

You can totally ease into it, that’s how we did it. Started with fantasies, then roleplay, then slowly introduced real situations. What helped was reading through tons of wife sharing stories—they gave us a roadmap, kinda. Some couples went slow, some fast. The variety helped us figure out what felt right without pressure.


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bibik93

I think people forget there’s no single rulebook for this stuff. Some folks dip their toe in, others jump in headfirst. What matters is how you both feel about each step. If one person’s hesitating, it’s a red flag to slow down. Curiosity’s fine, but rushing into it just to “try something new” can mess with your head.